Finding the Right Fit: A Big (but Worthwhile) Puzzle
Deciding on a local private school is a balancing act—matching your child’s needs with your family’s values, expectations, and finances.
Considerations:
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Academic fit: Small classes and strong support can be great for some kids, while others thrive in large, academically intense environments.
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Tuition & extras: Beyond base tuition, think about meals, books, activities, sports, transportation, and after-care. Some schools also expect annual giving or capital campaigns.
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Financial aid: Schools like National Cathedral, St. Albans, Sidwell, and Potomac often award significant need-based aid - sometimes covering 20–30% of the total tuition.
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Culture & community: Is the community competitive, nurturing, artsy, or service-focused? These traits can deeply impact your child’s happiness.
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Logistics: Proximity matters for parents and students - commuting adds stress.
Why Connecting with Families Matters
Numbers and stats are helpful, but chatting with current families or graduates offers the real insights:
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Behind-the-scenes reality: Readiness for transitions, approachability of teachers, and whether the school truly lives it's values.
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Unspoken trade-offs: How early does homework start? How much homework do they have? How competitive is sports or electives?
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Voices matter: Ask questions like, “How did your child adjust?” or “What surprised you about the community?”
Final Thoughts
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Match the scope to your child: Options vary from $10K to $72K+ - there are solid schools at every level.
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Prioritize what matters most: Classroom size? Emotional support? Arts or athletics?
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Talk to insiders: Visits, open houses, and parent networks are critical.
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Budget holistically: Remember tuition isn't the full cost—think extras and family sacrifice too.
Bottom line: Finding the right private school is challenging - but with smart research, community connections, and financial planning, you can find a place where your child will grow, and you’ll feel good about the investment.
Local Private School links:
Rivendell School, Arlington
https://www.rivendellschool.net/
The Sycamore School, Arlington
https://thesycamoreschoolva.org/
Bishop O'Connell, Arlington
https://www.bishopoconnell.org/
VINCI School Arlington
https://vincischool.org/arlington/
The Village School, Arlington
https://www.villageschoolnova.org/
Full Circle Montessori, Arlington
https://www.fullcirclemontessori.com/
Children's House Montessori, Arlington
https://childrenshousemontessori.com/
St. Thomas More, Arlington
https://www.stmschool.org/
Veritas Collegiate Academy, Arlington
https://www.veritasacademydc.com/
St. Agnes School, Arlington
https://school.saintagnes.org/
Congressional School, Falls Church
https://www.congressionalschool.org/
Basis Independant, McLean
https://basisindependent.comgclsrc=aw.ds
The Langley School, McLean
https://www.langleyschool.org/
St. Stephen's & St. Agnes School, Alexandria
https://www.sssas.org/
Episcopal High School, Alexandria
https://www.episcopalhighschool.org/
Flint Hill School, Oakton
https://www.flinthill.org/
https://www.sidwell.edu/
https://www.maret.org/
https://www.ncs.org/
https://www.stalbansschool.org/
https://www.gds.org/
You can also click HERE to get a list from Arlington Magazine of local Private Schools. Courtesy of Arlington Magazine.
Let me know if you'd like help contacting families, visiting, or modeling tuition+extras at [email protected] or 202-361-6098. I'd love to help you!